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[Etcaseka]

My ex husband sends dirty jokes including nude pictures to my 15 year old son through text messages. What should I do?

[karaann07]

Well, I would suggest talking to your son about it first. Maybe he's blowing this all off and thinks it's gross and it's not a big deal. Regardless of his opinion, you, as the parent, get to make the decision as to what he is and is not allowed to use his phone for. So the next step would be talking to your ex husband. Perhaps you can reach a compromise where at least there are no more nude photos, and the dirty jokes are kept to a minimum, and more age appropriate. I can assure you that your ex husband is not your son't only resource for nasty language and naked pics, though. He's 15.

[eLewis]

Your best option is to change your son's number. Then, talk to your son about it and tell him what you really feel about it. It is also right to make do's and dont's for your child in handling his phone.
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[thatwaseasy]

I would talk to your son about it first as well, you ultimately know what is right and wrong, and that just sounds wrong. 15 years old may sound like he's getting older, but just sounds inappropiate in my opinon. I would also bring up to your ex-husband that this sort of behavior is not appreciated, and it in no way, will help your son get any smarter. Tell him to send your son random facts everyday. life settlements.

[johndelclay]

If I were you, I would also talk to my son first before I confront my ex husband. Then I will tell my ex-husband to stop doing those nasty things because it won't do anything good to your son and it can't be tolerated.